Tis a surreal experience to rush out of your home late at
night and then return early the next morning (9 am to be exact) – without
sleep. As you stumble across the disarray of rejected clothing, jewelry, and
shoes, you wonder how you made such a substantive mess in the thirty minutes it
took you to get ready. You walk into the bathroom, switch on the light, and ---
sigh. Your hair is wild, your makeup has melted off, and your eyes are
unpleasantly bloodshot. Not caring, you quickly clean up, shut off the lights,
and throw yourself into bed where you promptly fall asleep.
….
It all started late Saturday evening when I was supposed to
meet my friends outside the Piccadilly Circus Tube Station. Due to various
circumstances (forgotten IDs, essential wardrobe changes, etc.), I ended up
waiting outside the tube station for almost an hour. Though I was by myself, I
certainly wasn’t alone. Teeming throngs of people bustled past me incessantly
as they sought out their late-night location of choice. Pubs, theatres, bars,
clubs – Piccadilly has it all. Then there were the people looking like a flock of roosting pigeons tightly perched together around the base of the Eros statue, which marks the center of Piccadilly circus.
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Piccadilly Circus. Courtesy of INCKX Photography. |
While contently alternating my gaze between the assortment
of individuals passing in front of me and the large video advertisements across
the street, I was interrupted with a tap to the elbow. I turn and see that the
two guys who’d been talking a little ways from me had now approached me.
Greaaaaat. I could only imagine the lovely conversation that was to arise from
this interaction. (And before anybody starts to get worried about two random
guys approaching me outside the tube station…don’t be. I’d managed - yet again
- to unwittingly bewitch two dorky, unattractive, and slightly obnoxious males.
Harsh, but true).
So now, things start to get interesting. I can’t really
remember their names, but they did share with me who they thought their
celebrity look-alikes were…which is how I will refer to them here…. “Jay-Z” and
“Michael Jackson.” I have to admit, I’m laughing as I type this because, of
course, neither one of them looked even the tiniest bit like Jay-Z or Michael Jackson. I mean
for goodness sake, “MJ” was an Indian man!
They explain to me that they have been having a “debate”
(yeah, right) on some points of interest relating to women that they would like me to clear up for them. The first question related to the matter of the scars on Jay-Z's arms. He was convinced that women would reject him at first glance
because he had scars, which he proceeded to show me. Let me tell you,
you could barely see anything. If you’re going to use a scar question as your
opener, at least have something legit to show off. Seriously.
At this point, they’ve figured out that I’m American
and are further enthralled by this. They both start coming up with inane
questions to get “a woman’s opinion” on – aka to keep talking to me. Ugh.
MJ: “So, say I spot a beautiful woman on the street. I
follow her and then go up to her, introduce myself, and tell her something
about how her beauty has caught my eye. Is that creepy?”
(No, not at all. Stalking somebody on
the street? Psh, sooo not creepy).
JZ: “Say I was on the tube during rush hour and I was
squished up next to a hot girl. How would she respond if I started hitting on
her?"
(Well, as everybody enjoys
being cramped like a sardine in a can right after a long work day, I’m sure
she’d be hard hit with your charm and wit).
MJ: “What do you dislike about Jay-Z’s outfit? Tell me one
thing you think he should change.”
(Yikes! Such an awkward question…. I had to
blow that one off).
JZ: “May I just point out, that your smile is amazing. It’s
perfect…like an angel’s smile."
(I vomited a little in my
mouth).
MJ: “So, you have to tell me. How many guys come up to you
throughout the course of the day? Ok, wait, just the club. When you go out to
the club, how many guys come and hit on you?”
"Umm, I don’t go out much? Really, it's not that many."
(This was me not wanting to admit that the
average number of guys coming up to me is between -2 and 0. Unless of course it’s “special”
individuals like these two gents).
MJ: “Ok, so like 10-15 guys? Would you say that’s correct?”
(Uhhh….. *quickly checks my phone, hoping that my friends are close*).
Anyway, this probably continued for about half an hour until
I saw my friends walk out of the tube station. Thank God. I think my voice
sounded more than a little desperate when I called out their names. It’s not
that I felt unsafe or anything, I was just annoyed (though slightly amused) and
wanted MJ and Jay-Z to leave me alone. I still can’t figure out why I repel all
the genuinely attractive males (except Chad) and attract all the weirdos. My
mom and I joke that it’s an inherited trait, but seriously, what is the
reason?! I’m never doing anything….they just find me. It's like I have an invisible beacon that calls them to me. If somebody could explain
this phenomena, I’d be greatly interested in hearing what you have to say.
And before I move on with my story, I just want to comment
on how ironic it is that they were asking ME for advice on women. I am not your
average American girl. Things that most girls would go for, I wouldn’t. I’m
old-fashioned. I have weird interests and I’m paranoid. For the first ten
minutes of our conversation, I was trying to figure out what their angle
was…until I realized they just wanted to talk to me. Blegh.
Thinking of ulterior motives though, I was just reminded of
something else they said. They asked me if I was a honeybait (it was honey something...I can't remember exactly what they said) - you know,
those women that lure unsuspecting men into dark alleyways where a gang of dudes
is waiting to rob them or worse? Yeahhh…. an obnoxious, yet interesting
conversation.
…
Ok, so I’m united with my friends, we’re ready to go. We
finally find a bar+club called Verve, which ended up being a really cool place!
The music was amazing – probably some of the best music I’ve heard at a club.
You just can’t go wrong with classics like “What is Love,” INXS’ “Need You Tonight,” and “Billie Jean.”
Overall, I found that British clubs are more fun than their American
counterparts. Instead of worrying about some creeper dude sneaking up behind
me, I could just focus on dancing around and having fun with my friends. There
wasn’t any grinding or girl-on-girl skank action – just good, clean fun.
Seriously, you could be dancing like this and nobody would care. They might
judge you a little, but they’d definitely let you keep dancing.
Because I was nervous about traveling all the way back to
Harrow - alone - in the middle of the night, I had arranged to stay at my friends’
campus – Queen Mary – until the tube stations opened again in the morning,
which for a Sunday, ended up being 7am. Riding the night bus to their campus was also a unique experience. It seemed that every time the bus stopped, somebody would try to
hop on through the middle door. Now, everybody – even I, the tourist – knows
that you’re supposed to enter at the front of the bus so that you can either
swipe your Oyster travel card or buy a bus ticket. And yet, at every stop, there
was “that person” who had to get yelled at by the bus driver – and kicked off -
for trying to get on the bus without paying.
At one particular stop, we encountered a
very persistent gentleman. As expected, the bus driver saw him and told him to get off. The man refused to budge. So, to make his point clear, the bus driver completely shut off the bus engine.
Now, everybody in this packed London night bus is just
glaring at the dude. It’s 3 in the morning. Everybody wants to get home. I was
personally amused at how quickly people’s primal instincts take over in
situations like this.
Several people in the bus (including the sweet-looking old man behind
me) started yelling for somebody to push the offender off the bus! The
offender then declared that he can’t believe that we're so base as to suggest throwing
him off a bus, and because of this public insult, won’t leave the bus on a
matter of principle. Oh my goodness…
When the guy finally noticed that certain individuals
might start to do more than just push him off the bus, he finally left and we
were free to continue on to our destination.
Once at Queen Mary’s, I spent a good two and a half hours
lying on my friend’s floor waiting for the tube to reopen. Around 7, I roused
myself and walked to the nearest tube station only to find out that I’d have to
wait another 15 minutes before the train would actually arrive. I also found
out that all of the tube stops near my school were shut off for maintenance
work, which meant I was going to have to take a replacement bus. At this point,
I was tired, dishelveled, hungry, and highly annoyed. And of course, it seemed
as though there were delays the entire two hours it took me to get back to the
Harrow Campus.
...
And thus, we’ve come full circle. I slept for three hours and then got up again to shower, get dressed, and make the long commute back into Central London for London Fashion Weekend. (Check back for a dedicated fashion
post in the future!)
Though my night was definitely tame in comparison to
others’, it was a night I won't soon forget. Part of experiencing a culture is
interacting with the very people who create and influence that culture. Though it seems like I've only been dealing with the nuts so far, I'm bound to encounter a normal person at some point over the next three months. But hell, it's the weirdos that make for the most interesting stories. At least I have that.